When do you all go on a holiday together? Isn't that coming up soon? Have a great time with D9.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
YEP ! We leave on the 14th of august for a long weekend ! I nearly forgot about that ! haahaha ! Guess some level of detachment is actually working ! hahaha
Thanks ANM ! And I have to say that saying you were content on Happy's thread, was beautiful ! Well done ! xxx
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
Thanks Cinders. You are going on holiday the day after my birthday. August 14th is a good day. My grandmother, God rest her soul, was born that day.
I will miss you while you are gone but have a great time.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
To be a good and loving mother To be a good friend To loose some weight (sorry have to add this...I am a girl afterall !) To find something to do outside the home (ie work) To keep going to my tennis lessons every week To learn more about household jobs (I have learnt all there is about pools ! ) To at least do one act of random kindness in my life. And to stay open to all possibilities in life
And many more that I just can't think of right now.
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
Cinders, Go off and enjoy your holiday and leave the issues of mlc and your h's issues at home. This is a time to enjoy those quality moments w/your daughter and your friends.
When the time is right, you'll begin to move forward and each person needs to move at their own pace. No one can rush this process.
Enjoy!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
hahaha 
and ENJOY ! xxxx