Yep, that was great. It made my day yesterday to laugh with you guys. Thanks.
Thought it was kinda funny last night. Went to DS last game and we had to forfeit because we didn't have enough players. So the kids scrimmaged a couple of innings and then we left to go to one of the coaches' house for a team party. H NEVER goes to these things anymore, but the wife of the coach went to school with H (shes the reason we got invited out to play in the 1st place). So as we are walking to the car to leave the field, H tells DS that hes not going and DS starts telling him that ALL the other dads go, how they hang out and stuff, so he decides to go, LOL. Guilt is a beautiful thing. So we are sitting at the party and he tells me that hes in trouble with the Troll. I guess they were texting at the game before I showed up and out of respect for me he didn't text her back and she got pissed at him. So my only comment was that he was *whipped and I rolled my eyes. He got kinda defensive and started to explain himself and I just told him, whatever.
I thought it was funny that he went though. Two days in a row he has chosen his kids over Dos Trolls...must be a record. LOL.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
((H4H)) At this point a smidge of respect is better than nothing at all, I'll take it. How sad.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
[quote=Sugar and Spice]So my only comment was that he was *whipped and I rolled my eyes. He got kinda defensive and started to explain himself and I just told him, whatever. /quote] Don't let him suck you in sweetness!
You're like my sister, you CANNOT keep your mouth shut. It's one of the things I love about you though.
I'm glad your h was able to make the right choice about the team party. He still has some of the guy you fell for in him.
And, you deserve much more than a smidgen of respect.
((((((((Corey))))))))
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence
I'm like you too Corey. I can't keep my mouth shut either, so don't worry about it!
This weekend is the company picnic. I'm told it's TONS of fun and they give away great prizes! It's all free to us and our families too. So me and D will be doing that tomorrow from 11-5. Sunday is nothing. Tonight we might be going to a show...if not, then out for pizza.
I have gotten better about it, but it is something I need to continue to work on.
Sometimes its just better to let it go. I won't justify my response though...Boo Hoo your in trouble with your OW? I'm your wife you DAFT (dumb ass F*cktard), so your probably not going to get ANY sympathy from me about it.
Anyway, I read Puppy's thread about helping others and I'm going to try, but I saw some of myself in the not listening to advice part and I have to do that as well, not just pay it lip service, do it.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I'm kind of where you are S&S. Told W that OM was cheating on her and lying to her back last fall and now I'm dealing with poor poor pitiful me.....oh well....
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.