Let's just say that I have found out through highly confidential yet trustworthy sources that ow is feeling a bit unsettled by the time that stbx spends at "my" house... with his child... I just happen to be there but she must be thinking something else.. hahaha (evil laugh)!
She wants a commitment from him... She wants him to not give a crap about my feelings and stand up for her and their "R"... She wants him to show his commitment to her by pushing the D through more quickly.
In her eyes it is simply "not ok" for him to be at "his", "our", "my" house.. WTH?? Are you kidding me??? I thought he was actually still married to ME! bwahahaha (another evil laugh)!
Does anyone else see the crazy irony in this?? It is soooo tempting to play with her insecurities... If only I cared more than I do now... it could be fun
I see things differently now.. What used to seem like ow's horrible attemps at moving in on my life, I now view as desparation to "keep her man"... It's both sad and funny at the same time.
Other than that, things are ok.. I definately have my ups and downs but am ready to move on with my life..
I love it! Mess with her, after all, shes always going to suspect him if they do end up together because of how they got together! She will always wonder if hes more than friends with that woman at work, or the girl that works at the bar... you know. The suspicion she feels now is just a preview for both of them.
I wish my sitch's OW live close enough to screw with... But I will have to live vicariously through you, even if you are too nice to actually do it.
Last edited by bluerain; 07/12/0801:58 AM.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...