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To be here or not to be here #1501156 07/01/08 12:54 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 777 S Snow White OP Member
OP Snow White Member S Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 777	Hi all, My story is the same as many. A loving wife blindsided by an affair. One that is played off for months as a friendship while she is belittled for questioning it. The discovery that the affair truly exists and the revelation that she is not the chosen one. My H moved out 3 months ago and we are in the early stages of setting up a separation agreement. I hope that these boards offer the support I need during this time. I have read some other posts and look forward to making friends with S&S, GFI, Fiesty GF, Karen, Kat, and ChocPuppy. Take care all, PP Me~34 H~38 D6.5 EA/PA-DEC.07 Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009

Re: To be here or not to be here Snow White #1501231 07/01/08 02:13 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 2,063 west coast L lodo Member
lodo Member L Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 2,063 west coast	Hi PP, You should make friends with me too - I may not have as much good advice as everyone you mentioned, but I'm fun to drink pink wine with when no one else is on the boards! Sorry you find yourself in the position you're in. How do you feel about how the separation agreement process is going? I just signed mine a coupla weeks ago. lodo Divorced: 10/26/08

Re: To be here or not to be here lodo #1501469 07/01/08 05:22 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,947 California G GoingForward Member
GoingForward Member G Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,947 California	Welcome, PinkiePie! $\:\)$ From what you've read, I am sure you already know that you will receive a tremendous wealth of support and understanding from many. Good to have you here. Well, ykwim! How are you holding up today? Last edited by GoingForward; 07/01/08 05:22 PM. Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell

Re: To be here or not to be here GoingForward #1501475 07/01/08 05:26 PM
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ V Virtually_Handsome Member
Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	(((((pinkie))))) Good to see you.... well, you know what I mean!

Re: To be here or not to be here GoingForward #1501477 07/01/08 05:26 PM
Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 10,326 Kansas K kat727 Member
kat727 Member K Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 10,326 Kansas	hi, wish we could have met under better circumstances! I feel for you, I am near the end of this mess in some ways but as everyone keeps telling me I should be looking at all the possiblities that are now opening up for me. I hope I can give you good advice. $\:\)$ kat Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory

Re: To be here or not to be here kat727 #1501540 07/01/08 06:02 PM
Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 1,358 G girlfromipanema Member
girlfromipanema Member G Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 1,358	((((((PinkiePie))))) How are you holding up? What are your hopes for the future? Wishing you well. M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence

Re: To be here or not to be here girlfromipanema #1501875 07/01/08 09:54 PM
Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 557 Boston F Frank V Member
Frank V Member F Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 557 Boston	You have the whole world in front of you Pinky, just take it SLOW and make the mature choices you need to make to get to a full happy life for yourself. $\:\)$

Re: To be here or not to be here Frank V #1501909 07/01/08 10:16 PM
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA F fightingirish Member
fightingirish Member F Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA	Greetings Pinkie...Glad your here.. Help is here, support is here.. ((((pinkie))) me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06 Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.

Re: To be here or not to be here Snow White #1502040 07/02/08 12:50 AM
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,643 L LL44 Member
LL44 Member L Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,643	Quote: My story is the same as many. A loving wife blindsided by an affair. One that is played off for months as a friendship while she is belittled for questioning it. My story exactly. I am so sorry you are here. You will find much support here.

Re: To be here or not to be here LL44 #1502056 07/02/08 01:03 AM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,012 St. Louis area S Starshyne Member
Starshyne Member S Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,012 St. Louis area	If you are looking for support, you have came to the right place. Everyone here is so loving and supportive especially at this point where you feel like your world is out of control. How are things going for you? Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08

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