ok i would like some input on my sitch from a waw. my stry is in the newcomers section i dont know how to link so i will sum it up. me and my W have been together 11.5 years and M almost 4. It hasnt always been easy i didnt really gve her her space. i tried to control what she did and i didnt put her first or the kids we have 2 D 3 and 20 month old. she has been saying how happy she was lately and i just didnt fully understand the seriesness of it nne of us do right i know now. well she left on may 4 this year. at first i called and beged pleaded all the normal things. i have seen a counceler sense she left. i have learned alot and she doesnt move on her decision to divorce. she went with me to a counceler last week but only says its for communaction for the kids in D. i have been realy trying to do the LRT for a little over a week and i actually thought it was working she stayed for dinner and invited me to a amusement park with her and acted at times like we were ok. Well then today i messed up i called her and tried to tell her that she could let her gaurd down with me and i would not hurt her again and just to give me another chance. she told me i had my chances and she couldnt do it anymore. I asked her why she invited me places and she said it was just for the kids and nothing i culd do would change her mind. she seems to be full steam ahead with selling the house and moving on. is there anything i can do i want to save my marraige and my family. luckly in my state you have to be S for a year. any help would be greatly apperciated thanks mike
