How long has everyone been separated from their spouse? I hear stories of where a spouse has not heard from their spouse in 1,2,3 , etc. years then all of a sudden they get a call or their spouse shows up at their house.
Right now, 8 months. But we are still in contact, albeit lately not frequently, but that's okay.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Almost 8 mos. We talk almost daily due to the kids calling to say good-night (something they did before the sep because he works nights).
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
As of the 8th, we've been separated 19 months. We used to talk almost daily because we'd talk with the kids at night to say goodnight. (50-50 custody) About a month or so ago she quit calling at night and I think the girls really miss those calls. I in turn did the same thing.
Just two weeks ago she told me that she's told her attorney not to file. This and a few other things over the last 6 months have opened my eyes to her mild MLC. The big thing is, can she overcome what seems to be pride and look or at least consider rebuilding our relationship and our family. I don't know but I gave a vow that was from the heart and I intend to hold to that vow, so I stand and have stood for 19 months to this point and I'll continue to stand.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
We've been separated 5 months. He moved into his parents place at the beginning of Feb this year. We have a lot of contact. We see each other everyday and communicate through phone calls and text messgaes. We work together and have a D6.
He filed for D a month ago but I'm still hopeful.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
My h and I have been separated 8 months. We saw each other once a week until a month ago when we went on holiday (separately) for 3 weeks and I found out about a potential ea. When I got back he said he could no longer do this and I haven't seen him since. That was when I discovered DB - I wish I had done so sooner! He wants to now meet up to discuss what is going to happen.
I'm still hopeful though... I love him. Posting here is an excellent form of support.
I am the baby in this bunch. We have only been separated for 2 months as a result of the bomb. Prior to that we, were together one month after he returned from a 6 month military-related separation. H is about to leave in Sept for at least another 6 months.
SMW
M40/H36 T16/M14 4K B2/08 S4/08 current
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
hey...emotionally (for her anyways) 4 months...physically, about 3...going to be legally in about 2 weeks. however, we still talk everyday (we hve two small children, and we say goodnite each day to them) usually small talk....
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
"Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..." -Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams
Been separated a year and 2 weeks. Stayed in contact at my request but as he is still undecided I have pulled back and we havent had contact now for 3 weeks-longest time so far. What an exhausting business this marriage saving is!
