Help / Advice 15

[Wooglint]

Okay, the world gets stranger:

Last evening she was telling the kids about how much fun she had this weekend with Nick and how he took her on his motorcycle on some "beautiful trails by his cabin". Later when she and I were talking I said "did I hear correctly that you rode a motorcycle? The woman who swore said she'd never ride a motorcycle and her children would never ride a motorcycle and her husband would never ride a motorcycle?" She said "Did I say that? Well, I guess I didn't know what I was missing. It was fun".


Last night about the time I was getting into bed the stbex wife called to discuss the schedule. She wanted the kids the next 3 weekends. Apparently she was concerned that we got off track and this would put it back on schedule. I guess the fact that I asked her to switch a weekend caused her a concern. Her solution was to do it this way. I'm fine with it.

Then she says "I know I don't have to tell you this, but I want you to know that all of the things I'm doing to "experience life" aren't because of you or Nick. It was just that I wasn't ready to do them before." My response: "I just glad that you are taking time to find out what makes you happy".

She continues to surprise me in all sorts of ways.

[Wooglint]

By the way, how does my Sunshine get 26 pages and I get 15? I'll never understand how this whole things works.

[Kalni]

"Your" Sunshine, the one you've been constantly ignoring lately (yes a 2x4!!!), thinks that your wife is having a standard MLC and is going to come out of it. The only question is, will you be there when she snaps out of it?

[Wooglint]

Your perspective is valid. However, the reason is that I've been on my blackberry and surfing this site that way is very awkward. Plus, my head has been up my ass a lot lately.

I apologize. How can I make it up to you?

The answer to your question is "nope".

[Kalni]

Ok, I get it, you are validating my feelings, you say I am right, you offer a logical explanation and you are willing to make it up to me. You are on DBing mode for sure....

Do not build up any more walls between you than the ones that are there already. Time will tell.

[Wooglint]

Actually, that's just the way I am normally. Maybe that's why it didn't work on her.

Trust me: "nope". And I know it makes it my decision to end it and not hers.

[Kalni]

You know better. Just don't tell me a couple of months down the road "darling, I am sorry, I have to leave you, your hair is not red enough and BTW my W is back. Thanks for your time..."
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[Wooglint]

If I were lucky enough "have you" I would never, ever leave. I'm not dumb

[Kalni]

Stop it!

How come you write anything you like and I can't? ...Forget I asked that.

[Wooglint]

I don't understand that question.