Does anyone have any thoughts on this? Does going dark actually work? I have a 4 year old D involved in this mess and I am trying to go as dark as I possibly can without affecting the D.
Thanks!
Chrism 40 XW 41 M 10 Yrs D 4 Bomb dropped 3/9/07 D Final 6/19/07
Isaiah 4o:31 But those who wait on the LORD Shall renew their strength;They shall mount up with wings like eagles,They shall run and not be weary,They shall walk and not faint.
There is a time for "going dark", and a time for allowing things to open up.
You havent written anything for 4 months. you should probably give more details on how things are now, before people can give you the best advice for your specific situation.
"going dark" is not a magical, "fix all situations" solution. Sometimes, it is the exact wrong thing to do.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
How are things going? What things have you been trying as far as DB goes?
Lisa
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
