Your H isn't done with you by a long shot-continue being his friend-let him make contact while your feeling vulnerable as your less likely to backslide.
When his confusion ends he will remember your kindness, humour and unconditional support and love.
I was sadly not out super-GALing (although I did make a start at swimming the Atlantic. Made it to Ireland but then I realised I'd forgotten my bag of socks and falsies!). I was actually thinking that I'm starting to get addicted to the boards so I set myself a little challenge to not look at my thread for a couple of days. Made it- phew!
I went to a BBQ on Saturday. That was fun, and then yesterday I (inspired by Jeff) decided to start clearing out my storage unit, which costs H and I quite a bit of money every week. We actually put a load of stuff in there when we moved into our flat (that I live in now), thinking we'd take it out when we'd sold the flat and bought our permanent home. As that's probably not happening now, I thought I'd start sorting the stuff out and make my flat a bit more homely and settled. It was quite liberating in a way, although sad to start clearing out an old (or I guess potential future) life.
Ho hum.
No word from H today (or over the weekend). I had lunch with CEO today and he didn't flirt at all, and he even told me he doesn't find girls who look like me attractive. looks like we can all rest easy on the CEO flirting with me front now then!
Hope you guys are all OK. ((((hugs)))) and welcome, Irisheyes to my thread! It's so nice to hear from you!
PS Don't believe the CEO. He is trying to make you let your guard down and then.... attack!! Belive half of what he says "and he ....told me he ....finds girls .......like me attractive", Ho hum!!! there you have it!!!
HAHA! I agree with Kalni!! I was thinking there.. oh yeah !? I think he is throwing his teddies out of the pram "Hrmpph, well I dont fancy you anyway" thereby trying to get you to try getting his attention and then WHAMMO!
Shame that there is no news from your H, how did you leave it last time, dont you have some overnight date thing coming up in June !??? Ali x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Lisa - I totally agree with Kalni and Ali. He's trying to get you to let your guard down with him. Don't fall for it....they're all dogs you know!
Glad you were able to stay away from the boards even though we missed you terribly! I think I'll make that a goal for me next weekend. We'll see........
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Thanks Guys! My guard is still up- always around that man; he's dangerous.
So, H and I were supposed to be having lunch tomorrow but I didn't hear from him today so I'm not sure if it's still on. I guess I'll see if he contacts me tomrrow morning, but this seems slightly unusual behaviour. Maybe he's DBing me; he has got my copy of DB although I doubt he'd remember that. I guess it could be a lot of things.
I was thinking at first of wearing something nice for it, but now I'm not so sure. I don't want to look too much like I made a big effort since he's backed off significantly since our Friday conversation I think I'm going to have to ho-hum again (K- I love that you love that!).
Ali- H and I are supposed to have a weekend together at the Rock Legends (think that's what it's called!) concert at the end of this month (the 28th/29th) and then a weekend in Southport for the golf on July 19th. At the moment I'm not sure if I expect either of those things to happen though. I can't imagine either being that romantic though!
I guess one possibility for H being a bit more dim than usual could be the wedding this Friday (his cousin is getting married). As this is the first wedding he'll have been to since our wedding I guess it could be pretty stressful. I assume, of course, that hearing the vows and about the sanctity of marriage will get connected in his head to his marriage, our vows and our big day. It may not at all I suppose.
She's up to the challenge!