I too must say I am thrilled for you. I can definitely relate to your 2 yr rollercoaster of denials, discoveries, and confrontations.
Yes, your post is giving me hope, and faith that maybe, just maybe my H and I can find our way out of this swamp to the sunny beach on the other side. Thank you for updating us and I wish you all the best in your "new" marriage.
FA
What does not destroy me, makes me stronger.
FA:43, H:42 D:7 M:10 yrs, T:24 yrs EA:?, PA:1/06 S:3/07 EA/PA ongoing Aborted attempt to move home 07/08
"So if this gives one person the hope and strength to hang in there and fight for their marriage, then I am glad."
I haven't logged in in AGES. I just happened to check the MLC forum to see if I could find something inspiring, and your post was the first thing I saw.
A little about me: This Sept. will be 18 years that we have been married. Separated since March 7, 2005; D16 and S12. He brings our son to Mass (to meet our daughter and I) on Sundays. But probably to see our daughter since she seldom spends time with him.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
Nice thread, just come to MLC from newcomers, think I will post a proper dated account (as best I can from memory).
You are an incredible person. At this moment I don't know if I can do this. Reading your story and the chapter from DR, I don't think I could handle it long term.
How did you hang on for sooo long???? What kept your faith?? Please tell...
TOH
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
Thanks for the wonderful story. I am beginning to wonder if part of my wifes problems come from MLC. Thanks for some inspiration to keep the faith and hopefully it will turn out for the best.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
