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#1454233 05/22/08 01:35 PM
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I have to tell myself that.

My last thread locked.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1454177#Post1454177

My last post:
I tried one more time ...

I texted H practically begging him to repay me the vet bills tonight.

i said Please Please repay me. I will not make it in thesummer. please

No response.

I cannot believe how he is being. Last summer he paid me doulble.

Last week , he texted me Happy Mothers Day.

Now, He will not respond to me.

I will no longer deal with H. H can text me, email, call..no longer will I respond.

To be honest, it is mean and hurtful.

Today he took D7 without me knowing.

He ignores my text.

WTF??? How can I even love him anymore.



Cagz,Trusting...


i can not fathom why h has to be the way he is. But Self Respect is #1.

Thi year i have seeen H in rare form. he is colder, meaner and more withdrawn.

after i sent him that text and he didn't respond.

I just said I do not understand.I wish you were happy but arent. Have a great nite.

This morning He dropped D7 at school. We saw each other. i didn't even look at him. i took D7 and went my merry way.

I am taking back control of my life.

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kiki,

The best thing any of us can do is to take back our lives and do the best we can. I'm sorry he's being a jerk, but it isn't unexpected. What can you do that will help your financial sitch this summer? Any ideas? I'm going into a temp agency next week to see what I can get there......

What about plans for the weekend, got any?

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Hi Grace, how are you doing?

I am trying to tutor as much as possible. With D7 home it will be hard to work. Tutoring is the only thing to do. It will all work out.

My mind was sabotaging me yesterday. i am changing my way of thinking. i have no idea what i am doing this weekend.

How about you?

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Taking D's to a big anime convention in a (fairly) nearby city. It will be fun. D16 will be bringing a couple of friends.

I know what you mean about self sabotage. My mind goes places I'd really rather it didn't. I am getting better about getting out more quickly though. Practice, practice, practice. You'd think I'd be a pro by now. \:\)

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You would think I would know better by now...I have been at this for almost three looonnnnnnnnnggggggg years.

Sounds like fun, enjoy!

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Hi kiki,

Can you teach summer school? Maybe D can sit in the class and color, practice preparing for the next year? At least it's something and only a few hours.

I'm reading The Power of Now to help with my mental lashing out. It was recommended by someone on these threads and she said it changed her life. I'm on chapter 2 so we'll see how it goes! Just wanted to throw it out there though in case you girls wanted to check it out too. \:\)

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Thanks,Dar.

Yes, I want to teach summer school, but my school, will not let me because I am switching to another school next year. Nic, Huh/ I taught summer school for the past two years.

Thank you for thinking of me, Dar.

I , too, have heard the CD's of Power of Now. It is really helpful. Sometimes i forget what i learned..I am glad to hear your are progressing.

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That's really sucky of them Kiki! If you're changing schools, it doesn't matter really and shouldn't effect you teaching summer school there. They just don't want to pay you for leaving?

I'm trying to progress. I've got to... don't like how things are so something's got to give.

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Kiki, I don't understand why he is not responding to you...he likes that control, I think.

I am behind so forgive me if this question seems silly or redundant: Did he agree to help pay with the dog's expenses?



Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

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his own blackness is eating at him, he can't just be healthy and whole acting the way the does, dont' expect him to act human any more toots.

I just ordered "healed without scars" was recommended highlhy


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

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I have peace in my heart, at last.
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