H back home..having a difficult time

[Mojones]

H is back home but is miserable every night. We have not discussed what the roots of our problems are to any extent and I fear that things will go back to how they were. I don't know how to communicate with him in a way that won't ruin everything. I read the DB books and got some ideas..but I am so emotional that I fear I will cry or be meak when talking. It needs to be done sooner than later...I am walking on egg shells. I don't want all of my hard work to be for nothing. I hope I don't blow it.