Those of you that followed my sitch know that I have been very unsure as to when I would make this declaration. We have all seen the false positives that live out there and I wanted to be damn sure that I was right.
In a nutshell, I have been back home since December 14th. At first there was some talk of me moving back out again but I held my ground (thanks DOM). We started to see a MC which has been very helpful. Most importantly I think we both realized for as much of an ass that I had been that people can and will change with the right motivation....
So why do I choose today to declare our D busted you ask... well lets just say that your favorite Hound has been very sick the last few days. To be polite I have been spending far too much time in a specific room in the house and it was not for grooming.
I decided that we have busted the D because as I was multitasking last night she came in the room rubbed my back, changed out my...um.....spittoon and told me how proud she was of us that we were here together. What timing right?! I thought it was the best timing ever....
I am sure that Michelle will tell you that the most certain sign that you have busted your D is when your WAW is superhelpful as you are having issues on both ends for several days!
The romance of it all.....
Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship
S7 S4
M: 7yrs Bomb: 10/19 Seperated: 10/24
The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Well, if your body isn't feeling better by now, at least your heart and mind are! Congrats and I really hope you're feeling better.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
Congrats.....that is great news!!!! I don't know much about your sitch but when your spouse gives an unsolicited act of affection it is a good sign. Hope things continue to improve!!
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
Hound, Tell us something we don't know...I proclaimed your divorce busted long ago! Glad to hear you're still doing well.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Bug - I know there were many who claimed that it was Busted, but I didn't want to jump the gun per se.
I have seen a few come and go on our board who make the claim and then come limping back because it was too soon or they did not learn from their experience - whatever. I wanted to make sure that it was for sure.... and what says strong marriage more than helping pukey mcpukester!
Oh the pungent smell of... we will call it love! LOL.
Thanks for all of your support youse guys are the best!
Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship
S7 S4
M: 7yrs Bomb: 10/19 Seperated: 10/24
The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce
