"it was hard to think God would allow for this to happen. But I do believe without my stich I would never have grown to be the person I am becoming everyday"
Yes.Absolutely,100% true.I have had two people i know actually end their lives because a woman left them.So sad....because they never understood that they were going through this for a reason.It was something they had to go though to be the person they were supposed to be.
DBing is beautiful for just this reason...if,God forbid,we are not able to get our current relationship back together,then at least we have all the tools to make our next relationship wonderful and as rewarding as we all deserve.
Me:34 W:31 Daughter:6 Married:5 years on May 24 Seperated from Sept 07 to Nov 07 2nd Seperation Mar 28 08 til now EAs/PAs on both sides since then Received divorce papers end of August
I must say, beau, that I did think of ending my life. After giving over 28 years of my life to this man, thinking that I would have someone forever, the thoughts that went through my head - I am too old to find someone else, I am worthless, I am not good enough - was enough to put me over the edge. I really did come close, but somehow, my oldest son called and put me in a better place. I couldn't do that to him or any of my other kids. And at that point, I really did have an awakening! NO ONE is worth that! And putting yourself first is the first step to moving on, which I really believe is one of the steps of DBing! If you really think of yourself and how you would want to be treated, it becomes easier to do. The anger at what the H has done is overwhelming, but I have decided to make myself the best ME I can be, with or without him.
Me-48 H-48 Married 25years Sep 12/05 S-24, S-22, S-18, D-12 Dated for 9 months of S, not dating now http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1565826
I am listening to this song.....and it made me think of you
I am woman, hear me roar In numbers too big to ignore And I know too much to go back an' pretend 'Cause I've heard it all before And I've been down there on the floor No one's ever gonna keep me down again Oh yes, I am wise But it's wisdom born of pain Yes, I've paid the price But look how much I gained If I have to I can do anything I am strong I am invincible I am woman
You can bend but never break me 'Cause it only serves to make me More determined to achieve my final goal And I come back even stronger Not a novice any longer 'Cause you've deepened the conviction in my soul
Oh, yes, I am wise But it's wisdom born of pain Yes, I've paid the price But look how much I gained If I have to I can face anything I am strong (strong) I am invincible (invincible) I am woman
I am woman watch me grow See me standing toe to toe As I spread my lovin' arms across the land But I'm still an embryo With a long, long way to go Until I make my brother understand
Oh, yes, I am wise But it's wisdom born of pain Yes, I've paid the price But look how much I gained If I have to I can face anything I am strong (strong) I am invincible (invincible) I am woman
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce
Rough room in here tonight. I thought it was helen reddy, but when i was reading the lyrics i was not too sure.
Boy can't get away with anything, maybe in my parents basement its on a 45. Just make sure i have the adapter thing for the middle cause it wont work.
And by the way sg, not that young. I was thinking maybe jeanette was listening to a remake of the song, they are all doing it these days.
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Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce
I think I was still in the cradle....or maybe the womb 
