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#1443140 05/12/08 04:41 PM
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[color:#CC33CC][/color]I posted the other day about my husband wanting a divorce. Well I hadnt heard or seen him till last night and he told me friday via text message while i was at work that he wanted a divorce. Well today he seemed all nice and stuff, he was talking to me and not ignoring me. Well he texted our one friend and said you know Cindy and I are done right? And she said what do you mean done? Divorce done? and he said yeah. So im confused. why is he acting all nice to me if he wants a divorce? Do you think he could still just be mad from what happened friday? I dont know what to do. Should I move out and give up or should I stick it out? I really love this man and want to be with him, but my gut is telling me he is completely done and wants to move on. Do you think there is still hope for us?

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Has it occurred to you that OW might be sending those texts?????

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no i know she isnt sending them. I know this because when he sent the messages today he was at home.

I also found out he has already told his parents we are done and they are ok with it and he also told his friend that there is nothing to work out between us.

I went and bought The Divorce Remedy today, but im beginning to think why read it if he really wants us to be over even though he still hasnt told me to my face.

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Read the book. It's not too late.

He is probably acting nice because he feels all better that he made a decision. He just doesn't realize that it is not a good decision. He is in "a fog" (not thinking clearly because he is in a "fantasy world" with an OW).

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I hope so, because a part of me still has that glimmer of hope. I keep thinking should I stay or should I move out and let him come find me. Im going to keep trying, even though its hard seeing him leave everynight to go to her house.


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