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OK I have a quick question and want to know if this can even be done.

Quick backstory. Wife left we got back together went to counseling for a year with a marriage therapist. I didn't get over my anger and our marriage was bad and I admit I was the problem. My WAW makes an appointment with our marriage therapist(before she goes WAW). I think cool we can go back to counseling because I do well when I am in counseling. I ask wife when we are going and she tells me she just wants to talk to him by herself. I'm think np they will have a few sessions and then bring me in and see what needs to be done. BUT NOOOO! Without ever talking to me this guy ENCOURAGES my wife to leave me. AND SHE DOES, because he said she needed to.


CAN I SUE THIS JERK????
I am SOOOOO pissed right now.


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i'm sorry pegasus, you can't, you could try but it'd be very very hard to prove anything.

Could you suggest you two go to another MC? I know the T my stbx saw encouraged him to see me as a mistake he needed to be free from. BUT, your W, much like my stbx, are adults and have a brain, they made the concious decision to leave.
Use your will to try to work things out with her and leave that looser of a C out of your mind.


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I don't know. It just pisses me off that without even having me come in he tells her that. He is supposed to be our MARRIAGE counselor for Christ sake.


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Originally Posted By: pegasus
OK I have a quick question and want to know if this can even be done.

Quick backstory. Wife left we got back together went to counseling for a year with a marriage therapist. I didn't get over my anger and our marriage was bad and I admit I was the problem. My WAW makes an appointment with our marriage therapist(before she goes WAW). I think cool we can go back to counseling because I do well when I am in counseling. I ask wife when we are going and she tells me she just wants to talk to him by herself. I'm think np they will have a few sessions and then bring me in and see what needs to be done. BUT NOOOO! Without ever talking to me this guy ENCOURAGES my wife to leave me. AND SHE DOES, because he said she needed to.


CAN I SUE THIS JERK????
I am SOOOOO pissed right now.




You could certainly try it but good luck finding an attorney to file that complaint and even if you were to find one, you'd likely never see the inside of a courtroom.

Word of advice: Stop deflecting blame and look in the mirror.













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