I am unsure if this is allowed but wanted to post my thread here to get maximum exposure b/c I need all the help I can get!!! Here's a link to my thread in the Newcomers forum.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1432902&page=3#Post1432902

Me=31
H=36
D=4
H dropped bomb and moved out=4/17/08, living with his mother 50 minutes away from home and work.