Hello, all. As some of you know from reading my regular thread, my H finally agreed to at least one M C session. The appt. is toeday, Thursday, 4-3-08, at 12 noon, Central Time.
I do not know why he agreed to go (still living with OW and pushing for D to be finished very soon) but I will pray and hope for the best.
I am asking that if anyone has a few free moments this morning, please pray that H will go into the C session with an open heart, or at least an open mind, and that God will touch his heart and mind and turn them back toward me and his family.
Also, I would like to ask everyone to please pray for wisdom, discernment, patience, and the ability to KEEP QUIET when needed, for me during the C session. I will update on my regular thread after the appt.
I am anxious. I have much more than butterflies in the pit of my stomach. Bald eagles, maybe? Pterodactyls, even?
I will pray from Ephesians (chapter 6, I think) to put on the armor of God before I go in to the appt.
Dearest Lord, please Be with me. Please Be with H.
Me:40, xH:41 M:19 T:21 D14, S10, D6 IDLYA bomb:12/22/06 OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06 H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07 D papers served 6/07 D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(
I too will be thinking of you and praying for you. Take comfort that it is all in God's hands and we cannot know his plans for us. I can just imagine how you feel right now. The night before our only C session I was more nervous than ever before thinking that an hour would determine our future. I see now that there is an error in that conclusion. C might not have the results you seek but something else might. My H (being in the biz) is a much more sympathetic character than I. I prepared for the therapist to see him as the injured party. Our therapist was very skilled and gave me great hope, I hope it goes the same for you.
Please keep us updated!
Me: 59 H: 59 Together: 28 years Married: 25 years in August "There may be someone else" 12/26/07 H signed a one year lease 4/1/08 H moved out 5/11/08 H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08 Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08
tpaschal, you are in my prayers. Ephesians 6 is perfect. Remember that you do not have to react in any manner than positive when in the session. Ignore attacks that may be spiritual or from him. You will have God sitting there in the room with you and you sitting in His lap, holding and comforting you.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
Remember to breathe. When you want to speak....breathe. Even when you are asked a question, it is ok (and probably preferable right now), to take a deep breath before you speak.
You will be ok, today will be fine. Let us know how it goes. We are all behind you (kinda makes the room a little crowded... )
Thank you all, so much. Leaving for the appt. in just a few minutes. Nervous, but I know God is with me.
I'm praying constantly.
Me:40, xH:41 M:19 T:21 D14, S10, D6 IDLYA bomb:12/22/06 OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06 H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07 D papers served 6/07 D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(
