I was cleaning out a closet Friday night, seeing that the married house is STILL on the market, and I came across a slip of paper with a birth control method on it (NuvaRing) along with an OBGYN's name and number. One she had NEVER used.

I was so incensed by the fact that she went to the extreme method of finding a BC method that only required her to do something once a month. Just really not happy. I have to sit here and wonder what else I am going to come across next. You know, you can't hide everything. I hope and pray to God that I never find out who the lover was, I really do.

I listen to female friends of mine tell me the shitty things that their husbands do. And I always have to think: "I am divorced and they aren't? What is fair about that?"


Me: 47
Pet: Kind labrador, 12 years old. Best Friend anybody could have.

Divorce final 12/07/07
No Kids

It is no longer about the divorce or about her. It's all about how I live my life now.