Rich was married several months ago to Fabiola They are now a very happy couple, who met in deceit, and shall prosper together. I couldn't be happier for them. Really.....I'm glad that part is over. I do feel sorry for her....I do wonder tho if she is aware of his uhm...sneakiness behind her back. Not my problem....he now officially belongs to her! And he said he would never get married again. Ha! 3 marriages in 16 years...he's on a roll.
I do wonder tho...why he would write to me in emails about moving back into the house, and going out....OH WELL, I guess those are just a part of life I will never understand. Not sure if I want to anymore. Oh....uhm, I think Teddie is at the house fixing the pump! Hehehe...FINALLY!
I did have an appt with my attorney today. In the best interest of things I have again emailed my xh in regards to the outside maintence on the house, keeping payments current and of course...leaving the lights and water on. GEEESH!
If he does not comply with my written requests, then my attorney will file a more formal request, if he does not comply with that...here comes the Judge. She didn't like the x very much to begin with. Smart woman She will most certaintly not be happy with his neglectful behavior.
As far as my home...well I do not have to sell it right now. You see....when the divorce agreement was signed, it was worth $120,000.00 more than it is right now. Therefore..there goes the figures behind the alimony! Damn shame huh? Oh...the X could give up his entire equity....if he wants the house sold so bad. Heck, his wife should push for this!! If not...he is still tied to me. Hmmm...it must be hard to live in my shadow
I'm truly sorry that it all came to this ridiculous lying, game playing and sheer ugliness. However, I'm glad it's over.
I have the law on my side. He's the one working outside of it.
I no longer have to walk on eggshells around him!!!!
I no longer have to worry what he's up to next.
She does.
No, this is not how I wished things would end. But who am I to wonder why God is leading me down a different path. It's time to embrace it and not be afraid.
Hugs!!
Jeanette
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I am totally confused??!! How did you find out that he got married and when did he marry her? I thought his affair was over and he was working toward a reconciliation. Are you sure that they are really married?
I know this must be hard for you. I am so sorry and I know there must be some relief to it, too. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am sorry for so many questions but I am flabbergasted! There is an old word, I pulled out of the archives but it fits!
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
Just goes to show you that the walkers make no changes in their daily walk with life they just do that walk with new people, who are just as damaged as themselves.
To lead you on the way he did is just mind baffling, what did he think would come from it?
I know you are glad to stop being actor in his big ole drama play of life, 3 marriages in 16 yrs says alot about his mind set of running from his problems, and from life.
They are now a very happy couple, who met in deceit, and shall prosper together. I couldn't be happier for them. Really.....I'm glad that part is over. I do feel sorry for her....I do wonder tho if she is aware of his uhm...sneakiness behind her back. Not my problem....he now officially belongs to her! And he said he would never get married again. Ha! 3 marriages in 16 years...he's on a roll. 
She will most certaintly not be happy with his neglectful behavior.
