My WAH left me over 2 years ago and moved 3000 miles 6mths ago.
He won't talk to me anymore since I didn't want to sign a separation agreement. I'm trying to find a place between letting go and getting scr**wed. My heart wants me to just sign away it all and hope he'll be friendly enough after that to have some kind of relationship. But it's really not fair in that I've spent all my savings, keeping the same lifestyle (middle-class not extravagent). He says he's going to serve me.
We don't own any property. Have no children (after several years of unsuccessful infertility treatment). I've not had much work this year, earn less than he and will have to get a roommate I don' t want if he refuses to help financially.
Should I just forget it? I get nothing it seems after 13 years of marriage, but broken promises, dreams and at my age I may never meet another man I'll love. I don't know if I can get over this. I've GAL and I just wonder if it's even possible?
Hang in there girl, it seems bleak at times but life goes on. Sorry to hear of your situation but there are lots of folks here that can relate to heartache after many years of marriage. I know I can. The biggest thing I have gotten from this sight is the desire to focus on making myself a better person. That has become my goal and it is not easy everyday, but it does get better as you progress.
