Lily, he displayed No symptoms at all. Except depression, but there was MLC at the same time. He is active (works out) and hikes and bikes all the time too. He doesn't smoke or drink, doesn't like to drink. He has occasional insomnia. No bugged out eyes or "moon face" etc. He eats very healthily. He's not tired all the time, just the usual tiredness that comes by 9:30 pm when you get up at 5am each day. Lisa
Hi, I came by and read your post. I kind of get the impression you had the MLC(identity crisis) and your H stood firmly rooted for you and the children. If that is the case all you need to be doing is give give give and you will have a wonderful life. Your H is already a giver. Loretta
Loretta: We are having a Southern Ontario DB get together on Nov 23 in Niagara. If you know anyone in the area who might be interested, please let them know - refer to my thread under just for fun or email me at travelbarb@hotmail.com. Thanks. Barb
Hope things are going well for you. I have been having a tough time as you will see if you have time to stop by my thread. But I'm making every effort to get back on track. H went to Attorney again yesterday. Not sure when he'll file but I think it will be soon.
Just wanted to say hell and offer encouragement to you.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone. H told me this am that he wants us to hang on each other and hang with each other all day. Hope everyone else's M's are slowleeeee getting back on track too. take care, Lisa
I was reading through you're thread and I see some similarities in our situations. Since you seem to be doing great, could I ask that you drop by my thread and offer some advice?
I think it's great that your H is wanting you to hang in there for him. I wish mine would say the same. My H left b/4 giving me another chance. Unfortunately as the saying goes, he can't seem to see the forest because of the trees. Meaning nothing good can come out of something so bad for him.
I am thankful that there is at least no PA going on (like so many others here) but I do believe there is a EA going on w/a girl 11 years younger than him. She's 22 and in college. Personally I think she's playing with fire and doesn't know it.
DB'ing 10 months now and it feels like things are better all the time. Still no ILY's from H though. But I couldn't ask for things to be going along better. It is a slowwww process and that is hard, we want it 100% better right away! But it didn't go bad overnight and it isn't going to get better overnight either, is it? Happy holidays to all. Lisa
