Balance

[matilda]

Andy,

Happy birthday. There are a lot of us getting older these days!! My B'day is next Tuesday. H asked me this morning for ideas of what I'd like for my B'day. It's nice to know he's thinking about me -- although, since his B'day is 3 days after mine, perhaps it's just really easy for him to remember mine. Okay, that's not fair to him. He's never forgotten ANY special occasion.

I've read that quote of Michele's you posted above before. I found it very encouraging. I know I have work to do to bring back my love fully for my H also. I know I've felt I didn't love him in the past. Michele is right on in her statement about love being a decision. A couple of months ago I decided to stop dwelling on the A - it was killing my love for my H. That was a major decision. Since then, I've done the very things she spoke about in order to fan that spark of love back into flames. It's working. And when I think about it, my H is doing the very same things. I think we're on the right track. When I get a chance, I'll post over on my thread what went on at MC last week.

Again, Happy Birthday. I hope your B'day wish comes true.

Matilda

[FS]

HI Andy - Happy Birthday!! Just making my visiting rounds really quick...little ones don't leave me alone for a second!!

FS

[treesa2]

It was your birthday?
Hope it was a very nice one. Special! YOUR day.
Happy Birthday Day... a day late but with all good wishes for you my friend!

Tree

[calendargrl]

Andy:

I hope you had a happy bday!!!! Stop by my thread of you have a chance - the EA has arose again! AHH! Enjoy your day!!

Nicole

[Duchess]

Sorry I missed wishing you a

Happy Birthday.

Duchess

[2Learn]

We have a tradition in my family called extend-o-holiday that's cause we're not real good at hitting the date right-on so we decided it was more fun to stretch it out. One time I had a 6 month birthday. One busy year, I sent happy February presents one year. My nieces and nephews get so many presents at Christmas I don't think they missed ours but the loved getting presents in February!

SO HAPPY EXTEND-O-BIRTHDAY ANDY!!!! You're a great guy!

[betty_sk]

Andy,

Je te souhaite une bonne fête (un peu tard)! And many happy returns to you.

betty

[treesa2]

Oh .. my that Betty doesn't show up nearly often enough... then when she does... would you like that fancy stuff she does for birthdays!!

So... still balancing Andy??

Lots of good stuff on Lily's thread today.

Thought I'd stop by and see if there was action going on.
No rain today... thank goodness.....
happy fireworks Canada... ( NO!!!! I DON't Mean THOSE kind.... ) heeheehee

[Duchess]

I'll never think of fireworks the same way again.

Duchess

[Daisy]

Hey Andy,

Thanks for stopping by my post and offering encouragement. You mentioned the changes in me since I first came here, and you were so right. I am working my way back to my real self, and it feels damn good. Thank you for the reminder.

Daisy