Zebra, I just saw you on Biscayne's thread, and came here out of curiosity. I am so impressed at your patience and the sensitivity you have shown. You have also helped me put the whole process into perspective. Somehow I thought when H said he wanted to try again, that it would be a Disney ending, happily ever after. But the roller coaster does not stop, it is not magic, it is the same hard work to be patient while they waffle, understanding as they make up their mind and finally make a committment, and sane as the OM/OW continues to exist on the same planet with you. Thank you. I am both inspired and dismayed as I read your thread and realize the hard road ahead.
