W and I recommitted to each other tonight over dinner. She said that she has fallen back in love with me, sees the changes, believes in the changes and is ready to start a new life together.
She put her ring back on and I am putting mine back on.
We need to close a few loose ends, continue moving forward as a couple, enjoy each other's company to the fullest and then I will move back home - possible April.
While this journey is far from over, I believe that my W and I will spend the rest of our lives together and it will be extraordinary. I think the past 5 months was an amazing learning experience, it provided each of us the time and space to re-discover what we want out of life which will position us to be better partners. The one thing that kept us together was our chemistry, there is something between us that cannot be put into words.
If you have that chemistry, do not give up on your marriage. DB your ass off and make it work.
If you do not have that chemistry, move on.
I want to thank everyone for your outstanding support. It's not over, but I think we will be ok.
My W told my daughter tonight, "I have good news. I am having dinner with daddy and he should be home soon." My daughter was absolutely thrilled!
Be careful, you're about to enter another honeymoon followed by some more rollercoaster rides...
But like you, I think you'll be OK.
I am so happy for you.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
What great news. For you, for your W and your D. Enjoy!
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
HALLELUJAH!!!!!!!! I couldn't be happier! What a HUGE inspiration to everyone here! It's almost better than hearing someone got engaged! In fact, I think it IS better!!!
M: ten years BS23, BS17 Step-SS20, SS16, SS14 Separated: August 07
Congrats...just remember DB is not over. It was always about getting yourself right. So, continue to do what you have been doing and grow with your spouse.
Fish, I'm so happy for you! Please stick around and keep us updated, and encouraged.
I think my marriage is really over, there's an OW involved now.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
