Warming up

[RandyH]

Inned to know how to handle this.I know it may just be baby steps but my W has started to open up.She kind of mentioned that I shouldn't bring up the past anymore so I took this to mean that the EA is over and thats more or less what the OM said also.I have asked her out and she says she isn't ready for that yet,how will I know when she is ready?Should I wait until she invites me over?Should I not contact her at all?She seems happier around me and I did tell her the other night that if she was 100% sure she still wanted a D then please go ahead and do it so I can go on.I also told her that if she wasn't and needed more time then to tell me and she said that she thought that I knew she wanted more time since she hadn't done anything.Any suggestions?

[KentS]

Yep,
Back off and let her figure it out. Stay dim but not dark. Be a somewhat silent sweetheart and focus on making your 180's permanant.

This is generic stuff for when the alien starts to depart. Don't get pushy.

I'm not familiar with your story but I'll bet you heard this stuff before.

If you want her back, don't smother her.

Kent