This may seem weird to some people that I'm posting here since I am not divorced yet nor have I even been served papers. The reason I am doing this is to try and maintain as much sanity as possible and to keep my hopes up that down the line things will change. W and I had dinner tonite and it turned out to be a "we need closure" dinner date. Well, actually not dinner because after she told me this over appetizers, I mysteriously lost my appetite. I asked for the check, shook her hand, and left. She looked a little shocked, but I was upset and I was in danger of breaking down if I did not leave the scene. She texted me later and apologized for upsetting me and wished me well. Anyway, I still love her, and I believe that divorce is 99.9% imminent. I'm 45, she's 43. No kids between us. So really what I'm looking for is encouragement and tips on how to conduct myself between now and D-day. Most is obvious such as being mature, and definitely not adverserial toward her, or laying guilt trips. So, I'm asking for any helpful comments and advice. Could really, REALLY use it here. Thanks everybody.
