Should I buy my WAW (STBXW) a birthday card? Which is on the 26th February. I will buy her one from our 15 mth old D. I know she wouldn't buy me one. But I am the cause of our breakup.
What do you think?
Me: 41 estranged W:37 D:16 mths M: June 2006 together Sept 2004 Separated in Separate beds from end of April 2007 S: from marital home Aug 2007.
I would buy her one. Either way, she may make a comment. However, being unhappy about you doing the right thing is better than being unhappy over doing the wrong thing.
I work with my estranged spouse and he didn't even acknowledge my birthday last September. The other employees did, so there's no way he forgot! It still hurts me deeply.
M: ten years BS23, BS17 Step-SS20, SS16, SS14 Separated: August 07
This is the thing. I don't know if guys would want a card, but a lot of women would never forgive not having their bday acknowledged. I am one of them. Wish I wasn't that way...but its true.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
