His treatment of your son really scares me. I would certainly not be in any rush to try to reconcile. I think I would make sure you are financially protected, and then figure out what to do. If you have to do something legally, do it.
Man, that is messed up. Hope she is OK and hopefully has bailed out.
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
Thank you guys for saying that maybe this marriage is one that needs to go to the wayside. I learned tonight that my oldest stepson is hiding from the cops and is dealing drugs. And he's the one my H put in MY son's room! And my son's kids are saying that my SS16 walks around the school high and smells like pot.
The shock of my H not wanting me anymore is now turning into praise to God for getting me away from that household!
M: ten years BS23, BS17 Step-SS20, SS16, SS14 Separated: August 07
I am always in favor of what's best for the person posting here and their kids, if any. It really does sound like you're better off moving forward on your own. I'm excited for what you can create in your future!
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
