Ok i had surgery on jan 28th laproscopically, experimented with masterbating soon after to assure myself i was still able and not damaged after the surgery! Wow now i cannot get to get enough i still have my ovaries and plenty of lubrication, my bf and i expermented the other nite as i was soo excited and he inserted the head of his penis, I had a orgasm immediatly I have never had a orgasm through intercourse without orgasms first through oral I know it is too soon i am sappose to wait for intercourse, but i get so excited now i dont know if i can wait what should i do?
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That sounds like a question for your doctor. We really can't give specific medical advice here. You might google on the topic-- you'll probably find plenty of material.
Glad things are going well for you-- you belong to that elite group that has graduated from this board. Best of luck.
i am sappose to wait for intercourse, but i get so excited now i dont know if i can wait what should i do? Ask your doc if it is Ok to do something else with your BF while things heal.
Hello from maine!I have been reading these posts, and just read the book sex starved marriage, Hope this would be where i can also ask a question. I met my special man 14 years ago we were together a year and a half and went our seperate ways after we had a daughter, 6 years later i married and had two more children and lo and behold.... 3 years ago he came back telling me all the things i wanted to hear for sooo long, I divorced my husband to be with him when we reunited thought the sparks would catch the house on fire!! Now He masterbates on the couch where he thinks i cannot see him every morning and sometimes when he gets up in the middle of the night. THis is every day, I am right there in bed...Always sexually stimulated i am 33 and never said no, OK so he prefers to masterbate can i save this relighionship?
This problem has been to the best of my knowledge completley taken care of, I have not witnessed these actions since my surgery even when i was hurting the worst after surgery it leads me to belive he was either worried about me, or he was turned off! Thank you guys for so much advise Helped me get through think i was so stressed myself i may have been turning him off. thanks for asking lou.
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I doubt he was turned off, but you do need to take time to heal. I understand your concern, b/c I had heard all the horror stories too, but it shouldn't make any difference with your feelings. However, my doctor told me to wait 6 weeks to have sex and when we did, I could tell I had had surgery, so be very careful.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Best of luck.