Divorcebusting.com  |  Contact      
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 8 of 12 1 2 6 7 8 9 10 11 12
Joined: Nov 2007
Posts: 2,062
B
Member
Offline
Member
B
Joined: Nov 2007
Posts: 2,062
Good luck on the truck shopping. You'll find the right one.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
Joined: Jan 2008
Posts: 2,222
R
Member
Offline
Member
R
Joined: Jan 2008
Posts: 2,222
Tomato,

Hang in there. Things will improve. There are lessons we are all supposed to learn from our experiences we're sharing here on this site. I don't know what they are yet, but we are to learn something from this.

Stay strong and keep hope alive. When hope dies, the soul dies with it.

RTL


M:38; D: 6
Divorce Final: 10/6/08

Joined: Jan 2008
Posts: 4,058
T
Tomato Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
T
Joined: Jan 2008
Posts: 4,058
RTL

Thanks for making me smile & almost laugh . ."there are lessons we are all supposed to learn fm our experiences . . .I don't know what they are yet . . "

Me neither!!

I am trying to hang in there. Ever so fragile though.

Heaven help the fool.


debut thread
Joined: May 2006
Posts: 3,933
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: May 2006
Posts: 3,933
thanks Tomato, and your welcome. You have such a better vocabulary than me, I've always been pretty simple, so I feel like I'm not as good at it. I do feel like God places these songs on me because they will just come in a moment, and then I won't have a song for a whole year, and then out come 3 in a month.

And what you guys are learning is to be the best YOU you can be, and part of that is following the word of God. He placed us here to please him, not for us to please ourselves. God has made each one of us different, and he has given talents to all of us, some more than others, and we are to find those talents with God's help and use them so that HE can be glorified by them.

just my preaching for the day. ;\)


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Joined: May 2006
Posts: 3,933
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: May 2006
Posts: 3,933
thanks Tomato, and your welcome. You have such a better vocabulary than me, I've always been pretty simple, so I feel like I'm not as good at it. I do feel like God places these songs on me because they will just come in a moment, and then I won't have a song for a whole year, and then out come 3 in a month.

And what you guys are learning is to be the best YOU you can be, and part of that is following the word of God. He placed us here to please him, not for us to please ourselves. God has made each one of us different, and he has given talents to all of us, some more than others, and we are to find those talents with God's help and use them so that HE can be glorified by them.

just my preaching for the day. ;\)


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Joined: May 2006
Posts: 3,933
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: May 2006
Posts: 3,933
thanks Tomato, and your welcome. You have such a better vocabulary than me, I've always been pretty simple, so I feel like I'm not as good at it. I do feel like God places these songs on me because they will just come in a moment, and then I won't have a song for a whole year, and then out come 3 in a month.

And what you guys are learning is to be the best YOU you can be, and part of that is following the word of God. He placed us here to please him, not for us to please ourselves. God has made each one of us different, and he has given talents to all of us, some more than others, and we are to find those talents with God's help and use them so that HE can be glorified by them.

just my preaching for the day. ;\)


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Joined: May 2006
Posts: 3,933
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: May 2006
Posts: 3,933
okay, my comp locked up, and guess it posted 3 times. whoops sorry!


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Joined: Jan 2008
Posts: 4,058
T
Tomato Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
T
Joined: Jan 2008
Posts: 4,058
greetings

i am being rapidly ground to a pulp by this sitch. don't feel that i have or have had very much left to give. guess i have a much lower pain threshold than i thought. emotional pain is not something that i or i feel that most men can handle. the terrible thing is that women know this and let's just say use it to their advantage.

life is filled with very many decisions, i am incapable of making any. everything is crumbling around me while i stand idly by.

God seems to hear none of it but he is awesome anyway.


Last edited by Tomato; 02/16/08 12:58 PM.

debut thread
Joined: Nov 2006
Posts: 1,024
I
Member
Offline
Member
I
Joined: Nov 2006
Posts: 1,024
T - Standing for your M does not mean Standing Still. Who and what does God want you to be? Put your circumstances to aside for an hour or so and focus on that.


Me - 43 and She -36. No kids.
Married 7 yrs - Together 14 yrs
Joined: May 2006
Posts: 3,933
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: May 2006
Posts: 3,933
good reply IWanna.

even put your circumstance aside for a week. You don't have to actively work on "fixing" your M or trying to do all the right things in your R with W. It doesn't mean you aren't fighting for your M.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Page 8 of 12 1 2 6 7 8 9 10 11 12

Moderated by  Michele Weiner-Davis 

Link Copied to Clipboard
Michele Weiner-Davis Training Corp. 1996-2026. All rights reserved.
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5