Adam congrats again. You reminded me of something I read here when I boarded the rollercoaster from hell. It was watch their actions not their words. How true that turned out to be.
I know from my experience that the actions come first. We know when our spouses do something that shows they care even if at the same time they are saying its over. I just ignored the garbage he was saying and kept smiling and showing him I cared and understood that he was going through a tough time too. DBing does work.
So Adam don't worry if the ILU's are not there yet. They will be in a little time and your W will be so grateful to you that you stood by her when she needed you most. Keep up the good work.
Hi Adam!!! Thanks for that tidbid about intimacies. I'm having a bit of a difficult time right now and that's exactly what I needed. We still change in front of each other, in & out of the bathroom thing, and sometimes our hands, feet, backs, or legs are touching while in bed. I agree these things go so far to say so much more than the spouses are!
Congrats. Adam! Even though my H and I are heading in the right direction now, I am still yearning to hear ILY. I am so glad everything is going good for you.
Congratulations Adam. WIth all of your hard work, you deserve this. I am truly happy for you. I can only hope that someday, each and everyone of us can be in your shoes.
