Hi Neecy, Thanks for the reply to Beagle. Sorry you are down too. Sometime the best remedy for all of this sadness is just to look at the rest of us. : ) I hope your D is better soon.
Ya I got it. Thanks it's contagious I just smiled too... Well I just called and I don't have jury duty on Monday... see another positive. Ya see it is just as easy to see a positive as a negative but for some reason we always give the negatives more attention. Take my W affair. If she did not have it I would never had known something was wrong. If my sitch turns out the way I want it to and stay married and COMMITTED. I may just call the OM and thank him. He lives out of state and I don't think him or W know I know more about him than his mother... I could call at any time... boy that sure would be a shock huh? It’s been almost 1 year since they "met". Bet he wouldn't be expecting a call from me... HE He
Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Well instead of complaining when H let me know he would be home between 11:30 and 12, I asked him to drop me off a tea on the way - and I asked him out on a date tomorrow night to dinner and a movie, and he agreed :-)
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
Well instead of complaining when H let me know he would be home between 11:30 and 12, I asked him to drop me off a tea on the way - and I asked him out on a date tomorrow night to dinner and a movie, and he agreed :-)
See... You are doing good...sometimes we forget that our spouses can't read our minds... If we want something we need to ask. I have found that the more freadom I gave my W and the more I took she would tend to come to me instead of me chasing her..
Still no sex but I am working on that..
Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
But thanks for the info.. Boy it seems that the husbands who's wives have affairs don'tget any sex. but.... the wives who's husbands have had affairs give their husbbans more sex.... what's with that??? Don't seem fair
Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
10 great things can happen and then one negative and you feel like you are back to square one.
Well H brought the tea and at 12:15 called to say they were going from his friends house to the bar for 1 beer and he would be a little later maybe 20 min. He came in at 3:15. I got up out of bed at 3 and drove to the bar(3 min away) to see if his car was there, it was just his and his friend's(another friend owns the bar). Back to being inconsiderate? Sounds like it. When he came home he wanted to know where I had gone since all the snow was scraped of the car. I told him and he said I can't believe you are hunting me down again. I said I didn;t come in, say antyhing or do anything, I just needed piece of mind. He got up late for work this morning, and I let him, I thought I am not fighting to get him up. We will see how this turns out as far as our "date" tonight.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
