LRT failing- or is this progress?

[Rockdog]

WAW was at our home this morning. I had spent the night at a friends house to get away. As soon as she laid eyes on me she gave me a big hug and started to cry. We have only been separated one week and I have been going dark, trying to GAL and do a 180.

The separation from our son is really bothering her. He is splitting time between our home and the condo she rented. I did not speak of our relationship, say I love you or anything that would seem like I was slipping. Our children (sons 17 and 19) are starting to show the stress of the separation and I believe my WAW is torn inside.

What do I do? Continue with going dark? Allow her to come and go from our home as she pleases? I must continue DB at whatever the cost but could use some help from the community.

I feel the separation from our son is more distressing to her than the separation from me.

[Virtually_Handsome]

A week is a crop in the bucket. But it sounds like you got at least a non-negative reaction. I think you keep doing what you are doing.

[fish]

Keep doing what you are doing. It's working