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new "techniques", new outreach, something!

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Suggestions....anyone there?!?!? I'll take anything, no matter how "out there", I need inspiration.

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When was the last time you tried to call him?


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Married: 6/22/02
Bomb: 6/12/06
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Signed D papers: 1/8/07
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....couple of weeks ago - get voicemail every time.

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when people give you suggestions, do you think that you just might do it, instead of coming back with a a bunch of excuses as to why you can't do it.

Maybe detaching in your case is not the way

go to his job
stand there until he gets out

tell him you need to talk to him

and ask whatever you want

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I don;t give "excuses", but I don't want to do things that aren't me, and frankly, some things offered may be right for others, just not me. that is why Iam aling for all suggestions. I can get ideas, and then sift thrtough to see what feels right for me. I want to be true to myself - is there any other way to be? If I am uncomfortable doing something -
NOT because I am araid of a reaction - why would I do it? I have to take care of me, no one else is.....

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Have you tried blocking your number or calling from a friend's phone?


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ok - so what kind of person are you ?


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Ok, everyone. I DO appreciate your time and effort in responding to me. I still just don't think this board is right for me. I felt better when i was off, actually. I think I'm going to break away again. It just doesn;t seem to work for me, sorry.

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Then what IS working for you? Because it doesn't seem like anything is.


M: 29
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Married: 6/22/02
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