Well first straight up owning up to the f*ck up and leaving the "alcohol induced" excuse out is a start. Second realize that it's up to her if and when she forgives you. What is up to you is to figure out exactly why you f*cked up and figure out how to assure her it will NEVER happen again. Third respect whatever feelings she has and don't push her to forgive and forget on your terms. IF you're lucky enough to get her forgiveness, it will be her gift to you!
Sheesh IC, as much as you would have liked the f*ck to slide by Miss IC, didn't it occur to you that flat out owning up to it would have been the right way to handle it???
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
You're right I handled this like sh!t and the alcohol is NOT to blame...I am. Whatever sh!t I have to go through to try to make things good..I will. Have I been hiding this hoping somehow, someway it will magically disappear...absolutely. Cowardly...sure. There is nothing you can say about me that I have not already beaten myself up over and over again about. What do I do now?
Well guys, here I am...asking for everyone's help once again. If I really warrant the help at all....
What's the steps in trying to repair an alcohol induced, one night f*ck-up?
Depends, on what exactly. And when. And why. And on your willingness to own up. And on MissICs willingness to work through this and forgive, whatever it was. Actually, it depends mostly on the last three. Good luck.
