Is this where I belong?

[butterflymom]

Been over in MLC for several months.

H has been home for 3 weeks or so.

Just wanted to start a thread.

So, what do you guys do over here?

Any margaritas anywhere? How about some snacks?

We had snacks in MLC!

BFM

[Sara]

Hi Butterflymom,

Nice to see you make the change. I float around and visit lots of forums, so you haven't shaken me yet. Welcome to Piecing. Hope things are still going well over at your house. I'm sure the kids are thrilled to have Daddy home for Christmas. You won't even need many presents under the tree to make this the best Christmas ever.

[cat03]

you had snacks? why did n't anybody tell me about that?

We mostly have whine and cheese here, he he.

Welcome

[limbo]

Welcome!!

For some reason we don't seem to have alot of drinks over here, but I do think its something we should start!
A round of polar bear shooters for everyone!!!

[Heartbroken]

Welcome!

Sometimes I think those of us in piecing doubt its for real and we are having trouble relaxing. It's about time this group let loose a little! I make a mean Blind Russian!!

HB

[butterflymom]

Cool.

It's only 8:21 here this morning, but hey it's 5:00 somewhere, right???

Thanks for the welcome. I hope to get to stay here.

Here, have some sausage balls and a screwdriver. They are a holiday favorite of mine and could maybe pass as breakfast food.

BFM

[JAK58]

MMMMM

Sausage balls AWESOME!!!!!

JAK

[Patrick325]

your all making me hungry!!

I hate to get serious but I have a question. I some of you have spouses that left and sometimes have come back. I am in a diff sitch. I left because my W wanted me to. I debated and resisted for a long time but she kept threatening to leave and ventually threatened D if I didn't. So here I am alone. But my kids stay for three nights and church on Sunday. How do I get an invite to move back in? Finanacially we may run out of money to have two houses in 4 or 5 months. Should i move back in without her approval? I'm not there yet but I am trying to get an idea of how piecing works.

[butterflymom]

Patick,
Sorry I can't be of much help to you. I wouldn't even know where to begin. Legally I don't think she can keep you out of the house if your name is on the deed, but you might be going back into a hornet's nest if you just move in without her approval. Common DBing advice says don't help them in any way. If she wants out then she should be the one to move, not you, but now that you're out you are going to have to weigh the pros and cons carefully. Perhaps approach it from a financial standpoint?? I really don't know.

OK - I gave blood today so I need some nonalcoholic beverages to get my volume back up without making me loopy. Anybody know any good virgin drinks??

OK - who ate all the sausage balls??? Jak?? There were 60 of them so I don't think it was her alone! No coming by and eating the snacks without saying hello at least!

BFM

[saffie]

hello BFM......munch, munch , munch - oops, didn't see you looking at me....munch, (hand over mouth).....gulp, swallow.....nice to see you here

Did you bring your pole with you and have you got your dishes back?