You've got to call them Lisa! You really don't have a choice. Make sure the kids can stay where they are for now. They don't need to show up in the middle of whatever he's doing.
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
You didn't fail. He's got troubles that have nothing to do with you. Do what you have to do to make sure you and the kids are safe. In my opinion, at at this point, if you never see him again, it's too soon!
He is so guilt ridden about the devestation he caused our family these last 2 + years. He is gone with the van and all his stuff in it- He said I can just figure out a way to make it on my own
and I will
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
He is so guilt ridden about the devestation he caused our family these last 2 + years. He is gone with the van and all his stuff in it- He said I can just figure out a way to make it on my own
and I will
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
You need to get past that fear of calling for help...the hardest but ultimately the best thing I ever did for my H was dial 9-1-1.
I think it is time for you to own up...your not a failure...but you have a responsibility to you and your children...stop the drama and make sure he knows you mean business...the next time he makes a threat call the police...the next time he wigs out call for an ambulance...he needs help and you might be just the person to make sure he gets it...either way you need to protect yourself and your children...
