I am Happy1 and I noticed on a thread in Newcomers that you have dealt with depression. My H has always battled depression since he was young. Before we married he said he was able to control it with St. John's Wart and mind control. H says if he was to have to take meds, this would make him more depressed. Now that we sre married and living together, I have come to realize that does not seem the case. Add to this, I think he is having a MLC.
Is there anyway you could read my thread and offer some advice. I appreciate any feedback.
Thanks for coming over and finding me. I am scared to be in piecing but I really feel like this is where I belong since I finally feel and my H tells me too, that we are now on the same page. FINALLY. And he tells me he feels like he must start at ground zero with me because he blew it. And he wants his family back. We are starting over with a beginner's mind.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
Yeah, I kind of felt like I could really move on, this time. My H and I have actually been doing the roundabout in our marriage for about the last 2 years and then 6 years ago is when it started its downward slide. I too, am impressed with how quickly DB worked for me! Perhaps it is because I had already tried all the things that DIDNT work and now it was time for something that did. We at least both now want to keep on working on ourselves and the M. Thanks for coming to see me!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
So far things keep moving along swimmingly. My H and I are still being lovey-dovey, but it is a good lovey-dovey not a smarmy. It feels like we have really reconnected again. I no longer see that darkness in his eyes. I told him the other night it was so nice to see that warmth and glow and love back in his eyes.
I had lunch with his Mother today and before I said anything she said she could tell he had changed and was much happier. She said she could see a light back in him again. That made my heart fill with joy.
Also, I am still GAL'ing. I have my work Xmas party tonight and it is employees only. So I bought a hot blue dress that is going to kick some a** and I am going to parteh with my friends! My H said I looked hot and classy in that dress.
Take care all
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
Hi PM! Haven't heard from you lately and missing ya. Hope your Christmas went well w/ H and S. I hope that you have been doing so well that you haven't had time to post. Keep rocking!