Something I found really interesting is how she says that couples need to PLAY. EXACTLY!! And this is one of the major problems that LD people have with their sexuality, they don't consider it PLAY. I can NEVER see my wife doing this. She never treats sex as a PLAYTIME activity. Sex should be play. Physical touch should be play. Romance should be play. Everything erotic should be play.
The only problem is that it is usually on the HD spouse that wants it to be this way, this stuff is just not PLAY to most LD people.
