Now the difficult thing is many of the people that are successful over time became not very regular contributors here. But you can also go to the Piecing it all back together forum and read what many of those people are doing.
I think we are on the verge of piecing, we've been teetering for a while now. The biggest thing that got us here, me getting ahold of myself, making myself attractive, addressing my failings and being positive. We have a long, long way to go still but the more I work on me the better the chances.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa