I found DB 2 years ago and it has saved my marriage. H moved out in July of 05, and last week he started moving stuff back in.
I am starting the KLA tapes and hopefully H will be joining me.
I can honestly say if I hadn't found this place and DB 2 years ago, I would be divorced by now. The other day I told H ILY for the 1st time in 3 years.
It's been a bit of an awkward time with H moving back in. At times I felt the old me trying to sneak back out. But I think I've done an OK job (I wouldn't say great job) of supressing the old me. I hope H would say so too.
H has been great. He even took S to school this morning and brought D and I Starbucks on the way back!! He did dinner last night and folded laundry.
We're getting there. I'm going to stick around for a while though.
When life gives you lemons, trade them for limes and break out the tequila!!-- Soxfan2007
7/1/05 Bomb 7/20/05 H moves out 2.5 years of Rollercoaster 10/30/07 H moves back home
Soxfan, Welcome to Piecing. You've waited two years for your H to come home. It's been a long road for you, but now you're being rewarded for your patience, and DBing efforts.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
Thanks CL. I've actually been here for a while. I changed my name on my old posts and had some of my old posts deleted since I'm hoping H will join me for KLA.
This is my "new" name
When life gives you lemons, trade them for limes and break out the tequila!!-- Soxfan2007
7/1/05 Bomb 7/20/05 H moves out 2.5 years of Rollercoaster 10/30/07 H moves back home
Stick around.. Piecing's tough, as you know. I'm so happy for you, though. That had to feel so good to say ILY.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
