I always tried to correct him and use to be very hard to respect our differences. We saparated a month ago and he doesn't want to come back. We only have been married for 3 years! Now that I think about it, I WASN'T THAT BAD! We don't have any children but I really though he love me. We had fun together it is just a constant miscommunication between us, we both come from different cultures, I am more traditional and he is not at all. My parents have been happily married for 30 years, his divorced a year ago and the are both re-married. Now I don't know if he will come back. Divorce just doesn't seem the right thing to do. He lives with his best friend now and he sais he is a lot happier.
I have seen him a couple of times lately, he is flirty and he makes jokes he is acting very nicely to me. A couple of months ago he wasn't nice at all to me, he would treat me like a stranger and his conversation were very short, he defenitely made me feel bad. Last time I talked to him about coming back he had a couples of week of been gone and he said to me he doesn't want to put himself thru that again. I really think we needed this break, our marriage has been tough sice the begginning, but we have only been together for 3 years!
Now instead of text message me he calls when he needs to know something. I am very confused, I don't know if I should do something about it, everytime he calls I am nice to him but I always end the conversations first and fast. All I have been doing is giving him space but honestly I just don't know when to act. Should I have long convesation with him when he calls, should I ask him out for dinner? I don't want to pushing far away but he knows I love him very much but I don't want him to think I'm expecting something.
Any comments would be appreciated. Separated: 3 months Married: 3 years No kids H: 29 Me:23
