Hey all...I just wanted to let everyone know that I am still doing great. Nothing has changed in my situation except for the fact that I don't dwell on it anymore. I have moved forward with my life. I have not given up hope on my marriage. I am still determined that my H will one day wake up and come home. I see lots of new positives in my situation daily.
My H has given me and the kids a key to his apartment so they can go anytime they want. He knows I have access to it also. He has asked for help with a few things lately (this was a new one for him).
With the holidays coming up we are making plans to spend them as a family as we have every year.
Once I learned to let go, things got a lot easier for me. I do still have down days but not as many. I have more up days. I have learned how to handle the roller coaster ride. When I have had enough, I jump off. I may get skinned knees but it is better than the ride. LOL!!!
I do check back here every now and again to keep track of people and what is going on with them. I didn't just up and leave everyone. I read their posts, just haven't posted anything recently.
