Thanks everyone. No, I will NEVER forget everything I have learned here and either has my H. The other night my H just kept telling me over and over he was so lost. You don't even know how great that felt to hear him say, knowing that we are both moving forward together. We were on opposite teams for so long and now we are on the same team.
Keep it up guys, luckily for me, my stitch resolved itself alot quicker then most others have, but believe me, I dont think it would have had I not met all you great people, and learned so much about myself and my marriage.
H and I still have a long road to go, but we are going down that road together, hand in hand and never looking back.
no, not at all. well in all honesty, the break down of his relationship with the OW was a big one. During the break down of his relationship with her, I was there to be his friend. I think the fact that he finally realized that through all this I stood by him, and he was able to finally starting to see things very clearly.
Toward the end before the breakdown of his relationship with the OW, I started standing up for myself. In the beginning I think I took DB'ing to far and was getting walked all over. So I sort of was following a litte bit of Dobson's Love must be tough, and db'ing techniques, but most of all, I took care of myself. Stood up for my beliefs, and stayed his friend.
So happy to hear the good news. I hope that you will follow through with Retrouvaille. It can work miracles. Of course, you've had one already!
I saw a funny movie about marriage today called License to Wed with Robin Williams. It really shows what happens to an in love couple when faced with the pressures of life. If you get a chance, I think it would be a good movie to see together. I laughed out loud several times.
Kali, this is so wonderful to hear. I will be thinking of you and know you guys can make it back to even a better place than before. Keep us posted with tips, we need tips!!
