I had left the boards and didn't really think I would come back but the break did me a lot of good. I am still standing for my marriage and coincidently today is my 21st wedding anniversary. Some of you will probably think, why is she still counting anniversaries when her D was final in August.
I am counting them because I am still wearing my rings and still living like a married woman. H has been spewing at me about finances and his rewrite of circumstances. I let him know recently that I would no longer tolerate this outburst and disrespect. He is one unhappy man.
I hate that he is pushing the boys away from him with his outrageous behavior. He has been working overtime trying to convince his family that we are the enemies and that he and OW are the innocent victims.
I was baptized a couple of weeks ago and I am feeling more at peace. I hope all of you are doing well. I continue to pray for reconciliation for all of you. Let me know how you are all doing.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
Glad to hear you are at peace. If you are standing, you can count anniversaries.
When I think of standing, I think of my grandmother. My grandfather died in 1950. My grandmother never was with another man. In essence, she stood for her marriage even though my grandfather was gone. She died in 1995 at the age of 95.
A friend of mine who prayed for my family was telling me that a man left his wife to be with another woman. The wife stood for her marriage also. She waited--patiently, and after 10 years of standing, he came back to his wife. Their marriage is better than it ever was.
Now that is what I call patience.
I am still praying for you, ANewMe!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Thanks. S-now-18's game tonight is Senior Parents Night. It is a crap shoot as to the treatment I will get when standing with H waiting to be introduce with our S. Wish me luck. Gotta go to work.
If you all have time, pray for a car for me, too. It has been 5 weeks since mine died.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
H didn't speak a single word to me or even look at me. I gave him a couple of pictures of S18 from football and he didn't even say thanks.
H is still so messed up, that it is unreal. I left a voice mail for him regarding an insurance check today that I signed the back of and he needs to pick up. I haven't heard a single word from him. He is really into avoiding me at all cost. Steelerfan said it is guilt that makes him act that way. I think she might be right. He certainly doesn't act like a person who is happy with his new life.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
welcome back ANM! Yeppers sounds like a happy man.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Thanks, Gals! I still don't have much time to check out the boards S18's gf told me tonight that S said that H was acting different last night. S18 spent about 5 hours with him, longer than he has for a while and that OW was not there the whole night and when she came home, they left without a word from either of them.
Trouble in paradise!! AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
Things are going better for me. I have a borrowed car for a while and I love the bible study and feel it is helping.
Take care all and thanks for checking.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
