Nope, when there is contact initiated, about finances, taxes, etc. we have exchanged brief Vmail messages, all very "up" cheery and positive. Not fake or superficial. We never fought and are not adversaries at all. . . . .
Spoke a few times on the phone in the past 4 months, all to answer $ questions he had. Very calm, sweet, "hey, how ya doing? Oh, that's cool . . ." type stuff.
Could not get any friendlier. . . .
I am happy to wait like this in limbo forever. I am in a good place in my own home. H takes care of all the bills and gives me more $ than I ever did when I was married. It is pretty sweet.
However, last month he left a message "So, we should probably talk about how we are going to end this . . " so I don't think he is waffling.
He does not want to file for D. He wants a quick dissolution, mutual. I think I need to face the music. . . . I don't think he misses me at all. He has truly moved on. As he put it to his sister "This marriage is just a technicality and an annoyance" and "she and I just own property together".
(((sigh)))
ME 40 HIM 48 Married one year. First for him Second for me Proud parents of a baby girl
