Let me paint a picture of my life..and I hope i can make it clear. I have a 15 year old brother that got asked to homecoming by a girl named Kelsey last week. He got on her myspace page yesterday and figured out she is the younger sister of H girlfriend!!! He could get on H pages, and his GF page..and they were on there kissing and all kinds of stuff. The really crazy thing is there are 3 sisters, oldest H's gf (which is 21 now 22) next one is a junior in High school and my brother dated her before and now their younger sister he is going to homecoming with. It depresses me so much, my MOm told me I have nothing to be upset about she is overweight and not pretty at all (thank you MOm for trying to make me feel better) and she drinks alot. My brother has met her twice....UURRGGGHHH why does this bother me? I am really trying for it not to. Plus today I am supposed to be getting the 1st draft of my D papers, that will put anyone of the edge!!!
That is awful. Do you live in a very small community or do you all just run in the same circles? I have heard of affairs that were connected to the family this way. I would think it is excrutiating to deal with. Perhaps this OP has very low self esteem. I would think any OP has to have some kind of past issues orelse why would they put themselves in such a dreadful R? I am so sorry, but your mom is right. It is not about OP, it is about your spouse's need to feel an ego boost with someone lower than the people he knows and loves from the past.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
The town that they live in is pretty small but it is also on the outskirts of Houston..so there really is no reason for their paths to cross. I really believe that this is just his way to "try" and make himself happy...but I am scared it will work. I didn't get my papers yesterday, so today might be it...I so dread it!! Thanks everyone for listening to me belly ache again. I am just having a hard time here b/c noone really understands..
