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#1207515 09/21/07 01:47 AM
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Lissett

My thoughts and prayers are with you.


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Hi Lissett

I'm sorry you are going through such a sh!tty time. You are of course managing it with your usual grace. You are one classy lady.

I've been thinking of you and have you in my prayers. I know that everything is going to be absolutely OK for you - because you are one of life's winners.

Take care, love and thoughts, V xxx


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Lis is one of the most caring people I've ever met. She is always looking out for others. She cares so much for the people in her life and it comes through in everything she does. She has provided me with much comfort during many dark times.

I think she is an excellent role model for her children. Her kids will grow up having so much respect and love for their mother.

I pray that when she looks at her children, she can see just how great of a job she is doing raising them.

I pray that when she looks at herself she can see just how amazing she is.

I pray that when she looks into the future, she can see that there is happiness ahead and good things are coming her way.


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Is there any doubt.

So many people who do not get along have her friendship as a commonality.

For right or wrong Lis embodies so much of what we want in ourselves and in a friend, and to many men here, in our wives, the exception to that might be the Imelda Marcos shoe closet. : )

I still believe that Javier will 'wake up' I wrong about the ammount of time.



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javier won't wake up...he already knows but is too p*ssed to admit it.

In his heart he knows he is unworthy of her.

I would hate to have that knowledge in my heart.

she is a light in my life...acknowledging it makes it grow brighter.

I simply refuse to even imagine going back to not having my life without her light

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Fig there is a danger in putting anyone on such a high pedestal.

Usually at cost to that person.



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she is not on a high pedistal.

my love for her is not based on the condition that she never fall.

my hope is that if and when she does she reaches for me so I can be there for her like she has been there for me.

people's flaws or ticks...what makes them unique... are some of their greatest beauties.

she is not above me

she is beside me

I can acknowledge all her wonders without danger becuase she shows me mine

the great giftof a friend like Cookie is that when youtalk with her or hang out with her...you are aware of how great you are too!!!

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I miss you Lis.

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((( lissie )))

mucho love to you, mamma!

and, the beauty of where Liss is now....

Javier waking up has no bearing on her life status, her future, or the testament to how wonderful she is.

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Originally Posted By: fig
javier won't wake up... I think that is a very negative thing to say about a person whom you don't personally know regardless of the fact he hurt your friend. If that's what you speak to her you are not lifting her up and that is not support. he already knows but is too p*ssed to admit it.

In his heart he knows he is unworthy of her The man he became in MLC is unworthy of her. You can't say that will be the case a year or two from now because MLCers come back and some stay there long enough to atone and then go above and beyond that. .

I would hate to have that knowledge in my heart How can you seem so giddy to know another person might then? .

she is a light in my life...acknowledging it makes it grow brighter You know, fig, sometimes your gushing is sickening even if it IS about the Lissett we all think the world of. Something about the way you talk about Lissett weirds me out sometimes and I know that I am not the only one so it's about time somebody said it. .

I simply refuse to even imagine going back to not having my life without her light Yeah. Whatever. Good luck with that.

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