Posted 09-13-2007 09:18 ....how can H leave and cut off all contact for weeks and weeks? How can he not even care howI am faring, handling ALL household stuff on my own? WHERE DID MY H GO?
(just having a really bad day today....miss my best friend).
I absolutely know how you feel wantlove! It sucks to want to be able to pick up the phone and call your Best friend when ever you want to. THat is how I still am and he has been moved out since beginning of may. I just think being here and sharing has helped, and that knowing I need to do stuff for me has helped.
He is probably doing what my h was doing and still is, trying to sever any and ALL ties and also to act as if he has done nothing wrong. It hurts but remember it iis OK to have bad days, they are unavoidable. But I still feel the good days are beginning to outnumber the bad. Hang in there. I will check back.
Me:33; Ring on 5/17/97 H:33; Ring off 5/31/07 Together:13years Married: 10 ("celebrated" 10th after he moved out Bomb Dropped: New Year's Eve '07 Moved out: 5/4/07 Filed: 3 weeks later S: 3 D&S(twins):1
I am having the same issues. I so want to be able to talk to my best friend. It hurts double because I have lost my best friend and my H. It is so hard to stay patient and just wait but there really is not anything else we can do.
I have these bad thoughts every day. You just need to push on. Come read some posts and try to keep your chin up.
Hang in there like Suzanne said and keep us posted. From all I have read she is right the good starts to outnumber the bad.
